It sometimes feels like we fall down more than we get up. Or how so many different dimensional ways we can make the same mistake. It's very hard not to look down on ourselves, however, imagine that you are God or the almighty creator. To give life, you have to cut your ties of communication and only have a spiritual voice to feel through to each other. Yet to give so much life to so many capsules, it is worth the disconnect.
Now imagine you are the creator, as the observer, you gave all viable traits to allow an abundant and joyous life. Over time, you observe your people distance themselves from you due to the ignorance of needing to know. Now remember this is a creator and he/she/it has not created living beings to see suffering and pain. We deemed ourselves so...
Psychology... Science... and most importantly, spirituality all point to the direction of self creation. What you think about most is brought into your reality. The mind and the brain work together to enforce the realities of your living essence. Let me be blunt... if someone murders, doesn't spiritually see it as a bad thing and they put forth brain and mind movement, this deed is clear of their pallet and they will not suffer the universal karma that others do for the learned thinking condition.
So this creator not only has watched his/hers/its greatest creations decide that their fate is eminent by conformed designs, he also has to watch them personally suffer from their own judgments and persecutions.
My point is simple... considering it has been proven we design our own future by the laws of psychology, brain work and mental direction, why would we kick ourselves for mistakes. Why would we persecute ourselves for behaviors that taught us possible growths and gave us a different sight.
Number one, you need to come to the realization that a mistake is usually directive of the effect it has on those around you. You don't want to hurt the ones you love. As well, keep sight of who's in your life that gives this strong, oppressive control on your movements. Perhaps you need different people. But most definite, never let anyone else cause you to hurt your spirit. Discover the why, live with it contently and grow to a higher level of living and understanding for what you have done. No excuses. Otherwise you are bringing your own hell into existence and learning becomes inconsistent with your reality. That's just dumb no matter your religious/social views.
Whether you believe in the creator or not, it is of no significance. Truth is, the majority of the people that learned about the creator have been taught to bring themselves hell on earth and if he/she/it feels like it they will go there even after death. I wont say what I believe because that's close to saying my beliefs are true and I'd be just as ignorant as everyone else walking this world that thinks this shit.
Truth is that it has been proven we are in charge of every form of our life by the way we use our mind and brain. Please... please be aware of the thoughts you are feeding your brain. And then after, don't woe is me about your current condition if you placed yourself there.
Learn some shit... Fix some shit. And never allow any source that was brought to this world before you to be able to control your freedom of movement.
Break those mental chains, stand up and and get better. Only YOU control your destiny so break shit, be shit and let nobody persecute you for your mistakes. If they can't support and respect you, they are not only absent of self, they are absent of this creator.